Sunday, March 21, 2010

HOW TO GET YOUR LOVER BACK AFTER A BREAK UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!


OK PEOPLE RECENTLY MY MAIL BOX HAD BEEN FLOODED WITH MAILS OF PEOPLE WANTING TO KNOW EXACTLY HOW TO USE THE SECRET OUTTA WHICH 80% OF THEM POINTED OUT TO RELATIONSHIP ISSUES MAINLY BREAK UPS.

FIRST OF ALL I REALLY DNT THINK THAT THE FOCUS SHOULD BE ON ATTRACTING A PARTICULAR PERSON TO YOU...RATHER IT SHOULD BE FOCUSSED ON MAKING URSELF SO ATTRACTIVE THAT THE RIGHT PERSON MIGHT AUTOMATICALLY GET ATTRACTED TO YOU BECAUSE OFTEN WHAT WE CONSIDER THE BEST FOR US MIGHT BE THE WORST SO MY ADVICE IS FOCUS ON UR REAL INTENTIONS LIKE IN THIS CASE THE INTENTION IS TO BE IN A FULFILLING AND HAPPY RELATIONSHIP RATHER THAN FOCUSING ON BEING JUST WITH THIS PERSON ONLY .

I AM POSTING THE ADVICE I MAILED TO SOME OF THEM ....

From the mails I found out that
1. they wanted their boyfreinds/girlfriends back desperately at any cost
2. they think that at certain levels they were responsible for this loss
3. they wanted to use the secret to get their lover back

people the first thing that we need to understand about the secret is that " it never gives you what you want " dont panic.....the reason is that the very act of wanting shows the lack of that very thing in ur life which further reflects that at sub conscious level u BELIEVE that you dnt have this particular thing and so u want it.

Since the secret always responds to ur sponsoring thoughts you will always keep attracting such incidents and circumstances that will re confirm your believe that you want this thing coz u dnt have it ...in this case your lover

Now the question arises how to get out of this vicious cycle because if u dnt have something u want it and if u want it that means u dont have it and if u dnt have it u will want it so u see ....you are trapped in a wrong beleif and thinking pattern.

To break this pattern you first have to STOP WANTING ...

how do u do that?

Well simple

1. Make a GRATITUDE DIARY where everyday in the night u write atleast 5 things you are grateful for in ur life it could be anything from ur mom and dad and house and ur new watch or phone etc etc..............to ur eyes ur ears ur feet ur slippers and the biggest thing..... ur mind and the desire to know the secret which wud give u everything u want and beleive that u deserve.
At first u will feel irritated for a few days it will be a boring routine and for a few days u might not find many reasons to be grateful for but once u make it a habbit ur mind will automatically on a subconscious level start looking out for objects people and circumstances to be grateful for ............and gradually within 27 days u will start feeling quite abundant as u have so many things to thank for.........and from there on the real LOA will come into action as the law will actually start sending such objects people and circumstances in ur life that u genuinly will be grateful for.

SO AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE WILL ACTUALLY PROPELL U OUT OF THE WANTING MODE INTO THE THANKING MODE.


2. everyday whenever u feel this gr88 gratitude in u just close ur eyes and think about the moments u spent with this special someone the good ones where u both were so happy and complete listen to ur laughter and see the happiness that was in ur eyes ....in short feel the feelings of being there with him/her and then when u are full of those feelings
just say THANK U SOOOOOO MUCH GOD THAT U SENT THIS PERSON IN MY LIFE AND I HAD SUCH WONDERFUL TIME WITH HIM/HER THANK U SO MUCH u can also visualise small hearts bubbles and angels around u both at that moment to give it a nice lovey dovey feel.

and then without thinking about the future or worrying whether ur visualisation will be true or not
JUST LET GO AND LET GOD.

3. once u do the above 2 things just be happy always no matter what and u will find reasons to be happy..... genuine reasons and i mean it ...i have experienced it trust me.

whenever u get a moment of doubt just tell urself
WHAT IS MINE CAN NEVER BE GIVEN TO ME OR TAKEN FROM ME ....IT WILL JUST COME TO ME..SO WHY SHOULD I WORRY I HAVE LET GO AND LET GOD

4 ONE IMP THING IN THIS WHOLE PROCESS DNT VISUALISE THE FEELINGS OF UR LOVER because u can be responsible only for urself not for others ( as in he/she is so happy to be with me and he/she loves me so much blah blah blah)
instead focus ur attention on ur feelings the way u wud feel wen u are with him/her ur happiness and content this whole process will give u a lot of confidence charisma and above all content and so u will see that even without trying too hard u automatically get attention love and abundance and everything that u wanted because now u dnt need those things to make u happy though u will have them automatically thats a different story.


LOVE AND BLESSINGS
KEEP ROCKING UR LIFE WITH AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE
AND REMEMBER
"FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT"

ISHA NIGAM

4 comments:

  1. A bit off topic perhaps, but I really need to know - which template are you using? I especially like the sidebar style

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  2. Nice Article,

    I break up with my girl friend last month.
    But Now I miss her so much.

    I hope your article may be useful for me And I try to implement it.

    Plese wish for me that I get my girl friend back..

    Thanking You…how to get your ex back

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  3. 脾氣與嘴巴不好,就算心地再好,也不算好人~~~..................................................

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  4. of course reggae everything is happening perfectly and nuthng goes wrong in this intelligent universe........so have faith and let loose what is urs will come to u no matter what........template i dnt remember i guess some rose thingy in blogspot default themes......god bless

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